don't worry be happy

bullying

hello sunflowers, how are you doing? Today i am going to give advice to anyone who is out there who is suffering through bullying. this is a very touchy subject to a lot of the viewers, so please be considerate. before i start, i want to say if you are reading this and you have thought of self-harm or any other thoughts, but decided not to, i am proud of you. you did something 3000 people today could not. lets get started! 

it is important to simply not care. if you keep caring about what others think, it will give them an advantage to keep picking on you, threatening you. if the type of bullying you get is not physical, but just hurtful insults, just laugh them off. it doesn't matter what others think of you, it only matters what you think of yourself. love your body and yourself, because you are meant be loved. i know, its hard, i have been there. if the type of bullying you get is physical, then don't ignore it or fight back. just tell an adult, don't be scared to. if you feel like you shouldn't tell, in case the "bully" will hurt you, don't worry, the adults got your back.  remember, bullies are not strong, they are
weaker than you. a quote i love is "don't worry, be happy" and its actually a song. happiness is what everyone needs. from personal experience, i have been through that rough time everyone gets, and i cried and i was sad, and i realized its okay to cry, its okay to be sad. but, that doesn't mean i should be sad everyday or cry everyday. i pulled myself together and thought of all the reasons to be happy then to be sad. this may only relate to some of you, but i prayed to God as a religious person. that might not be everyones cup of tea, though. read your favorite books, watch funny movies, talk about with your friends. because remember, you are strong. you are not weak. 

as i was in a pursue of happiness, i noticed how we should learn to forgive. not for them, but for you. forgive the person that caused you pain, forgive the person that owed you a thousand dollars, forgive the person that made you cry every night, because once you forgive them, you feel happiness, you feel proud. you can say to yourself 'wow, i just forgave her / him.' you feel proud of what a big step you took. so guys, if you are going through that tough step, please don't worry, be happy. feel confidence in yourself, just pity them. i learned this quite the hard way, but better now then never, right? if you have any questions, or you just need a friend, comment below ^^ hope this helped you -adventurist.